what is it expected out of a gal? wat a gal life is??? wat is she allowed to do? wat is she not allowed to do?? the latter list seems to be very big rite?? how s a gal different from boy? her physical abilities or disabilities(how do i call it??)..was it a boon or curse?? wat did the god have in his mind when he made the gal?? did he want a woman to be special and gave her extra capabilities?? taking much pain to bring a soul to this world is not easy rite? Is this truly appreciated? is the worth of it felt by all? then why is it that women are never allowed to be independent? Was God responsible for the way women was before or is now or will be!!! who knows?? Why are women alone expected to manage kids? what is a guy's role in this??? Why should a gal do all the cooking and household activites?? Is this a rule posed by God? Is God so cruel to do this? Doesnt it look like a practice that seemed to have originated millions of generations back? Was it a result of a fear that men had seeing women capabilities. Did they try to supress the women? Or women themselves chose this way of living. Are women so fools to choose a dependent life?Is this not a practice that was made a tradition, culture or watever it is...when is it the whole of society gonna understand this?? Managing house cannot be a great task. But isnt it true that there are many dreams of women buried in this...Did anyone care to know what the dream of a women in their house is like? Did anyone feel that women have their own wishes? Did anyone let her live the life the way she wanted to be?? Who cares??? Even the gal doesnt. All she can do is to crib abt it. Who s the reason for the way the society is? Too many unanswered and never ending questions!!!!Where is the conclusion for it?? Who should make it conclude? Women should take the initiative? Did she? Not all women. Why is it so? Are they not interested in change? are they restricted from change? wat can restrict them? Every women has an answer for it and it would be different and ofcourse, a valid point from her side:) But not a normal person can understand it. Change has started approaching and its not too far... :) My grandmother made sure that her girl should have a better life than hers. My mother made sure that i enjoy my life better than her. And i would do the same for my gal. The change is one generation after the other. :) It has to be slow and steady
Women, who need to be proud of being a WOMAN was made to feel for it. God wanted to make woman a more respectable being by giving her more capabilities. She was made delicate. But then, God forgot that men have sixth sense. They misutilized gal's power and went too far in misutilizing it that people never thought it to be one. Women need not feel bad for it. Be proud of being a woman. Its a boon :)PS: These were the random thoughts in my mind and TRIED to give a shape to it for getting it posted here
6 comments:
Boon or Curse ?A tough question to answer.But I see Woman as a personification of God.
What is she expected to do ?Nothing
What is not supposede to do ?What ever she doesn't like.
The Male dominant society created a perception , made the Woman feel dependable and brought down the confidence.In early Sangam literature there are many instances which speak great volumes about knowledge woman possessed and her Leader ship qualities.We really don't when things changed in Tamilnadu.
But Church massacred scholarly Woman .Davincicode touched on this.
The society so called culture tradition has termed what is acceptable and not acceptable for both men and woman .But as you know most of the men don't follow that and when a girl does unacceptable thing the whole of a society turns
as gossip mongers .She can readily ignore them if she thinks what she does is right.
My respect for woman increased manifold after i read mother by maxim Gorky.A great book which talks about how a woman transformed herself form being a mother of a son to mother of whole country.
We don't know God and i believe non e of us has seen the God mentioned in the literature.To me god is my woman ,my mother.
I felt of sharing my views though i could not answer many questions in the blog.
comradely
Senkadir
Thanks Kadir for the comments. I will read Mother book for sure :) And ofcourse, not all questions are answerable.. :)
Sangee,
Of late, in the modern world, I do not see much differentiation, at least in my known circle.
It is not a boon or curse to be a wo(man) (men or women), wo(man) encircles man. wo(man) is without man, self dependant, now-a-days.
Be happy what you are, it is not (y)our choice, then how you are accountable to say boon or curse.
All the very best
Durai
Wait until you get married.You will find the answer yourself :D
:) Sangeetha, what should i comment for this? its neither.. its nature to be a self with life.. its what you wish yourself to be..
Just "search and replace" God with man.. you'll get the answer.. And this may answer many of your qns.. n the reason it was imposed into her life..
cheers,
Senthil.
Un kelviku padhil un postlaye irukku. mudincha kandupidichukko... unnaku padhil theriyum aana ethukka pakkuvam irunthum othuku mana illa.
seriya?
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